Hi everybody! Can someone please help and answer the following questions I have - PLEASE! (I'll tell you my story at the end, why I want to know these things.) * What physically happens to the penis when a man loses his virginity by entering a virgin woman? (Am I right when I think that the foreskin connected to the head literally breaks lose from the head?) * What feeling is experienced when this happens? (Pain? and then extreme pleasure? Maybe retraction/ ejaculation at the moment it "snaps"?) * Does sex after losing virginity feel different from masterbating? How does it feel different? (or does it feel just like masterbating?) * Is it possible for a woman who is NOT a virgin, to take a man's virginity by maybe squeezing the penis tight enough with her hand as it enters her? PLEASE, I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO KNOW THESE THINGS... Here is my story (then you'll understand my situation): I started dating a wonderful girl 3 months ago, & she is really very special to me. A month or so later, I told her that I love her & would like to share my life with her. She bursted into tears and got very quiet and held back on affection (hugs & kisses etc.). She then said that there is something she has to tell me before continuing (or ending) the relationship. She is not a virgin. She was engaged to an ex-friend of mine & he took her virginity. She told me that she really thought they would get married & share life, so she gave herself to him. Thing is, he started gambling & stole from work & told lies. She didn't want to be with him anymore. I told her that I really love her (she also loves & accepts me as I am) & I accept her as she is. She assured me, and I also know it's true, that she's only been with him. I also know him & am comfortable with this situation. I know the reason she did it - was true love - not lust! We had sex 3 nights ago, and she really enjoyed it (even complimented me) - it was really very special for her. For me, I also enjoyed it a lot (being my first time - I am still a virgin). It was really very special for me too & I could feel the love between us (not lust). I know she can't take my virginity (give me what she gave her ex), we spoke about it & I accept it. The sex felt just like masterbating. I really enjoy being with her & if that is the way it's supposed to feel, I accept it, but if losing my virginity will bring us more intimately closer together, then I really want to give myself to her in that way (if at all possible). I really want our sexual & intimate love relationship to be very special & would really liked to be helped! I'm thinking of her guiding my penis into her vagina & then holding it tight as I enter her slowly, and that way "breaking" my virginity & giving myself fully to her. That's why I'm asking all these questions. So that I can know what feelings to look out for & what to expect. Thanking you for reading my posting & for your reply?! MUCH APPRECIATED!