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Super Hot Spots and the Male Clitoris (sic)
Q: When you're talking about the male clitoris aren't you talking about the glans of the penis, since anatomically it is made of the same tissue as the clitoris in women? And when you say that men have erogenous innervation much more similar to women than we realize, aren't you talking about the prostate?
A: I certainly don't dispute that the prostate has some intensely delightful erogenous qualities, but women seem to have many erogenous loci surrounding their vaginal opening as well. One analog for men (ENERGETICALLY, not exactly in an anatomical sense) begins in the area just forward of the anus (the famous PC - pubococcygeus - muscle region), and CONTINUES forward along that cord of tissue that becomes the penis we recognize (and love!), as it progresses to where the scrotal sac attaches to the underside of the penile shaft.
The great news about discovering these areas is that gently massaging them can lead to very powerful erotic responses, whether or not you are having an erection!
Bonus Tip: Gently exploring these areas is a great opportunity to practice using the Key Sound, and to watch for the resultant automatic Echo Effects™ which, as they become stronger, blossom into full non-ejaculatory orgasms!
Very Important Suggestion: Usually the most effective way to discover the erotic potential of these areas is to go slowly, and to use gentle pressure and massage of the areas as you explore. Do not try to make yourself have an orgasm! Instead, learn to relax and allow the Echo Effects™ to become stronger and more orgasmic - spontaneously.
Try to force or make the Echo Effects™ get stronger, or for orgasms to happen sooner - will only delay the often-continuous orgasmic waves to emerge.
There are a number of hot spots along either side of this cord of tissue, as well as right in the mid line of this cord, from the anus up to where the scrotum connects to the underside of the penile shaft.
It may take a little probing with the three middle fingers to locate these areas. Sometimes firm pressure makes them sensitive in a way that is at first unpleasant. But by changing the pressure (lighter, or heavier) they suddenly begin opening up to pleasure!
How to use the Key Sound while exploring
The secret to knowing WHEN to use the Key Sound is this: As you begin gently probing these areas, at some point you will likely notice a spot that is more sensitive to the touch. It may not feel particularly pleasurable at first - it may at first just feel sensitive.
As you locate these sensitive areas, pay close attention to your breathing pattern. It's very likely that as you contact these sensitive areas, your breathing pattern will change. You will automatically tend to take a larger-than-average in-breath. In fact, heavy breathing is a familiar expression associated with sexual arousal and activity. Why? Because we naturally and automatically tend to change our breathing pattern whenever we experience any erotic arousal.
Your breathing tends to change at a time like this because this larger in-breath is the way your body begins to increase its level of arousal. You are automatically charging yourself up!
When you notice yourself automatically taking a larger-than-average in-breath like this, THIS is the moment to use the Key Sound as you exhale that breath.
Do NOT force the Key Sound, or try to make it any louder than it naturally needs to be to exhale that breath, and the energy it contains.
What to watch for
As soon as you use the Key Sound, watch for your body's automatic response. Usually in the beginning this will be a little chill, or thrill (in the original sense of that word!), or a feeling of: "hmm... what was THAT?", or: "oh, THAT felt kinda good," etc. This I have dubbed: "The Echo Effect"(tm).
That is, you will tend to begin feeling some kind of an automatic physical response to the Key Sound, usually pleasurable.
You don't have to force it.
It's there for you if you articulate the Key Sound correctly.
In fact, trying to make it happen is the surest way for it not to happen!
As you browse our Multiple Orgasm Trigger Discussion Forum, you will read numerous accounts of people who've opened these magical gates to multiples, and who say in effect:
The trick was to let go of trying to make the orgasm happen, and instead just to relax and let go into the pleasure.
Note: Browsing our bulletin boardis an excellent way to follow up your initial practice. Post your questions (using your pseudonym login) and read what others have discovered.
Further exploration
As you continue to explore this cord of tissue between your anus and your penis and you locate additional sensitive areas, you will tend to become more aroused.
Continue to use the Key Sound immediately after the single touch or caress of an erotically sensitive area , that is on those automatic, at-least-slightly-larger-than-average in-breaths (not every breath, just every 3rd or 4th or so).
These spontaneous Echoes will tend to become stronger. As you stay with the Multiple Orgasm Trigger Protocol™, they will become so strong that they can send you right over the top with intense waves of pleasure (yes, orgasm!). If you have a sex partner, ask this partner to gently massage these areas for you. It's a great trust builder, and at that point your breathing will change!
My Favorite
The area that is REALLY HOT for me tends to be in a soft spongy area called the bulb at the base of the penis. This area is one to two inches or so below where the scrotal sac attaches to the underside of the penile shaft. Incidentally, this is the area that with full penetration, tends to push up against your partner's pubic bone, resulting in that delicious "up to the hilt" feeling.
As you contact these areas, your breath will tend to jump into your chest. That is, you may notice that your chest is automatically expanding. IN FACT THAT'S A GOOD SIGN YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT NEIGHBORHOOD! The KEY is to learn how to redirect your breath when it's trying to do this! Redirect it by using the Key Sound! When you make the Key Sound correctly, you are automatically EXPANDING your lower belly as you EXhale. Then watch for the Echo Effects.
As you become more aroused, it may get more difficult to make the Key Sound correctly. If it gets too difficult to make the sound, then reduce the level of stimulation and arousal just enough so that you can resume making the Key Sound correctly. If you follow this important guideline, the automatic Echo Effects in response to your Key Sounds should become stronger and stronger.
This automatic Echo Effect phenomenon also validates and underscores that your body CAN and DOES >>remember<< how to do this, that it's coded into your DNA. This is cellular memory... DNA memory... Visceral memory... And it's your birthright!
Just go easy, take your time, EXPLORE. Don't be goal oriented at first. Don't try to MAKE yourself have this new kind of orgasm.
Instead, ask your body to help you remember! Ask your body for the gift!!!!
Slow, easy, gentle exploration... using the gentle, unforced Key Sound every 3rd breath or so, and enjoying its automatic response: the Echo Effect. THIS is what opens the floodgates!
