At the beginning of this year, my husband (Bilko)started seriously investigating sexual teachings to enhance our pleasure, relationship and health. Since knowing him
I'd often heard him talk about the limitations that most men suffer in their capacity for pleasure compared to women, mainly due to the ejaculation response. If he could find something that would free him of these limitations then this would benefit both of us and we would both be happier. Although Bilko has always been extremely selfless in his attentions to provide me with satisfying sexual experiences, I would sometimes detect a kind of wistfulness that such full pleasure seemed beyond his reach. Over time I may have started to minimise my sexual responses, at least psychologically, in a sympathetic attempt to not get "too far ahead" of him.

Anyway, at the start of 2003 I think we were both ready for a bit of a shake up - and we certainly got it!

Bilko introduced me to Taoist teachings, in particular the work of Mantak Chia and some writings from Tantric traditions. All very interesting stuff. After a little bit of study and the application of some exquisite love making techniques by Bilko, I had my first extended valley orgasm. I had never experienced anything like this in my life and I was amazed. It was quite unlike a purely clitorally stimulated orgasm. Much sweeter and more refreshing. Like a golden wave rolling up the entire length of my body. Wow!

I was naturally delighted that Bilko's study had yielded this lovely gift for me but what was on offer for him? Well, it all seemed to hinge on controlling the ejaculation response which required many, many years of rather austere meditation, practise and control. Squeeze techniques aside it didn't really seem to be that much fun. It didn't seem fair.

Not that we weren't having a lot of fun as a couple during this period. Having two small children and all the broken nights and attention demands that that brings, we were at least trying to make time for each other. Even if we didn't quite make that space we were putting out the positive message that we wanted to relate to one another as sexual, sensual beings outside of all the other roles that society naturally places upon us.

Bilko kept looking, searching and studying.
Not long after he mentioned he'd found a very interesting site that seemed to promise the very thing that he'd been searching for.
Naturally I was curious and encouraged him to continue his study.

Soon, Bilko had purchased Jack's cd seminar and told me a little bit about the Key Sound. It seemed a bit of a wild idea in it's simplicity but because of this it seemed silly not to try. What did we have to lose? Bilko demonstrated the KS. Without giving it much thought I had a go at making the KS - rather badly I thought but oh my goodness - I felt something! A little tingle up my spine. This method had caught my attention! Please note that this did not happen in a sexual situation. It was during a general discussion making the demo all the more creditable.

I listened more attentively to Jack's seminar at my next opportunity. I was intrigued. If this method really worked our lives were just about to take some remarkable turns!

To be perfectly honest I didn't have any time for solo practise. The cd got listened to because I had a few long car journeys due to work. At the end of the day, when the phones got pulled and the children settled (at least for a few hours!) Bilko and I would grab every second of quality time together.

One evening, not long after purchasing the cd we decided to do an eye gazing meditation. We sat facing each other and slowly tuned in to one another. The mind noise gradually abated and our breathing deepened. As a subtle, erotic charge started to build between us I attempted the Key Sound on the larger than average breath.
Without any effort, reaching or tension the beautiful golden wave orgasm that I had experienced some weeks before took hold of me. I felt my heart expand with joy and my body quivered with pleasure. The feeling lasted a long time. Then as the wave gradually subsided Bilko made the KS and to my utter amazement it triggered my orgasm again!!

Had I not had the experience of valley orgasm some weeks earlier I may not have realised that I was having so much success with the KS. However, Jack's method was so much easier. A real fast track to a level of feeling that I never knew existed.

This is the beginning.
Andi