Hi all, I just had a great impromptu chat with Jack right here in the chat box! What a top bloke! I got to ask him questions concerning my apparent breathless, so I thought I’d share.
I’m a newbie and have not reached the heights of MMO yet but I am getting some exquisite spontaneous echo effects at night. I want to cultivate these as I reckon this is how my first non ejaculatory MMO will come for me. I’ve been having trouble when I’m at some sort of peak my body goes tense and I become breathless. This averts my attention and the feeling start to subside. Now this has only happened a few times in the last weeks, so I’m yet to get a real handle on it. It could be “terror at the gates” but it’s more like “what’s going on, I can’t breathe!” I’m also feeling that I’m trying, rather than letting things happen. It has been noted by loved ones that I can be a bit of a “control freak”.
So at this stage I’m gonna relax, let myself become accustomed to these intense feelings and try a bit of pursed lip breathing as suggested by Jack.

Your thoughts or experiences would be greatly appreciated.
SkyWalker