I gotta mate, we're good mates, help each other out with stuff, talk about anything, well almost.
I tend to attract opposites, he's opinionated, I mostly keep my thoughts to myself, He's hyper-masculine, I would be more likely to show my feminine side, anyway, I'm thinking he would benefit from KSMO as I'm sure all men and women could. I just need some hints on how to go about sharing something serious with him, we send each other links from time to time usually to some perverse site that we can extract a good laugh about, but nothing that you could consider helpful in ones personal development, that would possibly considered a bit weird or something.
I've gotta be a bit careful, I've created a persona here that links back to the Aneros forums, he's no dummy, he'll be onto it in no time. He'll stir the shit out of me if he finds out I've been sticking a bit of plastic up my arse! I'll never here the end of it. I'll probably have to edit this thread or ask Jack to delete it if I end up telling him.
So any of you socially adept people out there can offer some strategies I'd be more that grateful.
Thanks.
SkyWalker

Hmmm..very intriguing indeed SkyWalker

I am gonna relate how my "mate" or friend got me to the KSMO family/forum. He'd mention that he'd just had the most amazing "session". And that he'd have so much energy he was bursting with it.

I guess what I'm saying is casually drop in a few words like-- Oh wow, I have so much energy and feel so good right now. I don't know what you two discuss as far as sexual things...that is your private lives. Then casually , after some time passes...drop in that this program you've been using is just absolutely the BOMB- or the best!! If he's intrigued, then start talking about KSMO ...if you get nothing from him... wait it out. Try again later.

Me...I'd sit down and talk face to face with him-- me being a woman I mean .... been raised around men all my life...

Let me know how it goes . okay?? Maybe you can invite him to watch a KSMO livechat sometime-- where he can watch a chat session and maybe ask questions of the members and Jack even.

I know Jack and I would be very honored to answer any and all questions he or any one has of this Wonderful and Blessed program.

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With Love, Light and with a Joyously singing heart,
Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

Thanks for your reply Laly,
Being a newbie I have not reached the heights of MMO yet, but when I do, he'll notice the glint in my eye, and then we'll sit down with a few beers and I'll have to tell him the whole story, from the years of ordinary orgasms to KSMO and all the ugly bits in between. I might leave out the ugly bits.
And you Laly will be the first to know.
I know he'll be interested, we compare sex notes occasionally. He'll either be pissed off I didn't let him in on it earlier or I'll confirm his thoughts that I'm a complete nutter! Either way, I'll be the one in MO bliss and sharing it with my beloved wife.

I think it would start something like this:
SW......Hey dude! tisst (that's me opening a tinnie) You know how chicks can have multiple orgasms.
Mate....well, yeah!....
SW....do you know blokes can too?
Mate....That's bullshit!...where did you hear that crap!
SW....Nah, fair dinkum
Mate....Waddya mean?
SW....Well it all started when (insert wavy dream sequence here)

I reckon it would go pretty much like that. It's the next bit I couldn't guess.

By the way, Dude and chicks are not usually a terms I use, I only use "dude" with him when referring to him as a "young person" that someone older (me) is trying to be cool and hip with. Stupid I know, but I can't help it.

Wish me luck,
SkyWalker

That sounds about right Sky...

I apologize in advance..as I read on I could help but laugh at that pre-conversation you put in....

It reminds me of a friend of mine when he "reverts" to his British terms when we're talking.

I found it funny because it reminded me SO much of how my friend and I got to talking about KSMO in the first place....

I surprise a number of people when I mention talking about sex...when I say I have a meeting to go to and they say what's it about. I just picture alot of jaw dropping .

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With Love, Light and with a Joyously singing heart,
Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

No need to apologize Laly, that's just my Aussie humour shining through.

It’s a pity sex is such a taboo subject, I think we’d be a lot better off if we could talk about it more openly. I blame parents. Sex was NEVER mentioned at home when I was a kid, I got my first sex talk from Mum when I was NINETEEN, she’d worked it out that I was getting a bit “fresh” with my girlfriend at the time. I told her it was a bit late to start that now.
Luckily when I was a kid my best mate’s Mum was a nurse, we found her text books from her training years, the funniest thing I remember was my mate pronouncing pubic as public, public hair, hilarious, got us thinking though! We were only nine or ten.
Unfortunately I am no better, although I have no kids but I do have a 16 year old goddaughter. One day she was staying over at our house, we were watching a movie alone together. The subject of the Jewish Bar Mitzvah ceremony came up and she asked me what it was, now, not being Jewish or knowing much about Judaism and not wanting to misinform her I said “ask your mother”. I can’t believe I said that! I want her to be able to ask me anything. (I had a lack of knowledge in this area, I though Bar Mitzvah was Jewish for circumcision, what a dill) I know what I what I should have said, I dunno, lets Wiki it. We would have both learnt something!

I guess the problem perpetuates.

SkyWalker

I'd said same thing Sky....I don't know much about Jewish customs either- and would have said as much to her....

From what I can recall a Bar or bat Mitvah is a jewish custom when a boy or girl is a certain age and given this celebration as a rite of crossing into adulthood.

__________________
With Love, Light and with a Joyously singing heart,
Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

The best way to introduce a friend is to get a copy of Jacks pod cast found here
http://el.pod-ad.com/content/Expande...ckJohnston.mp3

Burn it to a CD, hand it to him/her and say "check it out" .

then wait 40 minutes.