Nightmare - Last longer in bed using the Key Sound Multiple Orgasm Trigger™

anerosmith · #1 10th March 2009, 10:29

Hi all
Yesterday I had a KSMO session after about 2 weeks of abstinence for reasons beyond my control.
The session was great but I had a sleepless night.I must have had 3 very vivid nightmares in quick succession that woke me in a state of panic.
The themes involved death of loved ones and loss of approval at my workplace.
They were so scary that I couldnt sleep well for the rest of the night and was quite groggy at work.
I was pleased to say that none of the dreams were actually realised!But it was weird and I dont fancy them again!

Has anyone else experienced these and can someone shed some light?

Thanks in advance
A

CRUNKYEAH · #2 10th March 2009, 18:52

I don't normally remember ANY of my dreams besides the dirty erotic ones every now and then

, and the occasional nightmare (wish I could remember more than that hah)

Maybe this is some sort of simile or metaphor that your subconsious is trying to tell you? I'm glad to know none of the dreams turned out in reality, but your brain could be trying to tell you something here.

Maybe someone with more dream knowledge can help?? GL anerosmith

Laly · #3 11th March 2009, 22:14

Anerosmith...I do occasionally get that...it is the subconscious trying to tell you something in my opinion.

Am sorry to hear that they bothered you that much...am nit sure what Jack would suggest at this point, but as for me I would suggest or offer that you should seek professional help in dealing or working through these issues.
I tried ignoring mine or working through them myself but got to point I was barely sleeping at all and the progression of the "fur-balls" increased until I just couldn't bear it anymore.

Here is a link for certified/trained experts http://www.aasect.org/directory.cfm

I was lucky that I have great KSMO friends that got me to seek a professional counselor and have been seeing her for a few years now. Although I've yet to introduce KSMO to her, we talk about other things ...mainly building confidence in self.

When I do have odd dreams...I now take the time to listen and say to self "now what is this trying to tell me?"

anerosmith · #4 11th March 2009, 23:22

Thanks Laly
I have since had a very satisfying session.
What happened was that for the 2 weeks before the nightmares I was unwell and had various concerns on my mind.One was the sudden death of a child who had a brain tumour and was known to the family.After that happened I spent a few days hugging and kissing my children at every opportunity,thanking God for the priceless gifts they are.
My take on this is that any energy inside you before you start a session is amplified and expanded.
So if one has "negative" energy or thoughts then the after effects can be unpleasant and if one has pleasant or positive energy.the after effects are calming.
Interesting.
But I definitely think that was my first "furball".And you're right that it's the mind speaking to you.Perhaps it's a way of expressing pent up emotion.I am looking at this as something positive although initially I couldn't.I've only now started seeing the "message" of the furball,which is that I should love my children more and cherish every moment I spend with them.
I am ready to go again and will post my observations!
Thanks for your support

Anerosmith

Laly · #5 11th March 2009, 23:52

aww ...sorry to hear about the death-- that's very hard especially when it's a child...regardless of whether that death is "pre-known" or not. Yeah health and well-being can and may affect the session for sure.

The negative/positive energy flow can IMHO affect a session as well.
Am glad to hear other sessions have gone well for you.

After my first bout with lucid dreaming...I've done quite a bit of reading on dream analysis and what they can mean, but moreso - I've just taken note of them and really dug in depth to what my subconscious was trying to tell me -- when dreaming that I was trying to ignore or basically NOT listen to when conscious-- classic avoidance

.

On the death of my daughter...I completely shut myself off from everything- in hopes of not feeling anything...just going day too day-grieving for her, missing her, but not really accepting she was "gone". last year, I had a meditative dream or weird experience...where a little girl appeared to me in a room full of people (only "I" could see her) after someone asked if there was any one who wanted to say anything to me. She came over to me and as I leaned down and said "hi"- she put a hand on my face and said "I forgive you mommy, but now you need to forgive yourself" ...for me this was a VERY emotional experience for me...bewildering even. But, I did listen and for many months-- really took an in depth look within myself and let go of the pain of her death and blaming self. Once I forgave self...it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders n my heart...

The sadness re: death of child is tough...but do remember the joyful times with the child-- the good memories ALWAYS will outweigh the negative one. I know that my daughter is happy with God and also is surrounded my my brothers and sisters and they shine their love and happiness around me.

anerosmith · #6 12th March 2009, 18:29

Hi Laly
Thanks for your words of support.
You have obviously had the courage to overcome the things life has thrown at you and come out stronger than before.
Anerosmith

Laly · #7 12th March 2009, 22:39

Thanks...

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