Specific emotional release/orgasm during childbirth - Last longer in bed using the Key Sound Multiple Orgasm Trigger™

roderik · #1 12th December 2008, 11:16

I haven’t written or posted for a while, and there are a couple of things I wanted to share and possibly get some feedback on. The first regards an experience I had back at the end of July when I was having a KSMO session making louder key sounds into a pillow. I usually mix softer key sounds sitting up with louder ones in the lying back/knees pulled up position because of my ability to create the different volumes in the different positions.

I let out one particular key sound and felt in that act or the burst of energy which ensued that a very particular energy blockage was released. That all sound well and good, but what struck me was not just the very intense feeling of resolution on a physical level, but on a very specific psychological level. It was a feeling of releasing some angst or strife around a particular argument I’d had with my ex-girlfriend about 6 months before we broke up (which was over 4 years ago), and which had become a recurring theme in our relationship…mundane stuff about driving, who was supposed to drive, responsibilities in this sense, etc. It struck me that, here while I’m attempting to open to this KSMO flowering and keep my eyes out for particular sexual, erotic, emotional experiences, I have this amazing spontaneous release on such a specific point of tension that I hadn’t thought actively about in such a long time.

This experience really struck me, left me feeling dizzy—almost like that relieved yet drained feeling after throwing up when you really needed to. It also made me see this kind of talk about emotional energy blockages in the body or the whole self in a totally new light. I never really scoffed at any of that, but I’d never experienced it so directly and matter of factly as I did then. I think this is also very relevant to Qigong practice and other types of energy work…particularly the Sedona method, though I must say the Sedona method, while useful in my opinion, never gave me this intense or immediate a response. This experience has really stayed with me.

Secondly, I saw this link/article yesterday on the Huffington Post about women experiencing orgasms during childbirth, and it really struck me. The article is not that long, but just the idea…I’d never heard of this before, but it reminded me of people I’d heard speaking about childbirth from a more non-traditional or non-mainstream perspective: e.g. Jerry Stocking and Genpo Roshi. I’m curious about the implications this has, particularly in light of the kind of things I’ve heard/read on this forum about energy experiences via KSMO and the awakenings and maturing it can lead to. Maybe this is a more ‘natural’ experience that more people can have the more they’re in touch and communion with their energy. Hmm. I’d particularly like to hear Laly’s take on this.

Here’s the link

Orgasms During Childbirth? - Motherlode Blog - NYTimes.com

I’ve been having a lot of very potent energy lately. It tends to go in phases according to what I’m working through in my meditations, resistance that might be coming up, etc. There are longer periods when KSMO energy is very present and almost puling through me most of the time, and then there are times when I don’t have as much ‘access’ to that vibrancy. It seems to be in ascendancy at the moment, so maybe I’ll have more to write soon.

Laly · #2 13th December 2008, 23:55

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Secondly, I saw this link/article yesterday on the Huffington Post about women experiencing orgasms during childbirth, and it really struck me. The article is not that long, but just the idea…I’d never heard of this before, but it reminded me of people I’d heard speaking about childbirth from a more non-traditional or non-mainstream perspective: e.g. Jerry Stocking and Genpo Roshi. I’m curious about the implications this has, particularly in light of the kind of things I’ve heard/read on this forum about energy experiences via KSMO and the awakenings and maturing it can lead to. Maybe this is a more ‘natural’ experience that more people can have the more they’re in touch and communion with their energy. Hmm. I’d particularly like to hear Laly’s take on this.

Thanks for the wonderful look back at this article and the video clip. I do agree that the approach IS a more natural experience and surprised that more women are not made aware of this method.

I can not speak in regards to the pregnancy n KSMO link myself, but I can and will speak on just how much KSMO has opened my mind, heart and spirit thus far. I came to KSMO first of all because I knew the thoughts n ideals I had surrounding sex and orgasm were not healthy ones at all. I wanted to be able to love myself and look at "love" in happy and enlightening way.

This past year and a half, I find myself on more of a spiritual journey and even finding myself experiencing some things that I am hard pressed to "explain" as to why they are happening- and why now. For me, my KSMO journey has how shall I say this- to a new level of awareness- plane of existence?? That is it has gone beyond the mere wanting/seeking the multiple sexual orgasms....I have risen to that level many times already *grins....

don't get me wrong- I don't practice 3 x a week for KSMO anymore-I am a KSMO adept -- meaning I have re-wired enough that i don't "need to" anymore. What I do experience from time to time are heart-gasms and spontaneous FBO orgasms.

Sorry I think I may have gotten off track on here ... my answer is YES... I do believe that KSMO can , if the person truly opens self up - no holding back.. that she or she (or they if couples) can reap many many wonderful and loving benefits from KSMO.

I mean look at me-- in the beginning of my KSMO journey I was very shy, hardly talked, and wasn't all that sure of how KSMO would help me, and now I am very happy with who I am, love myself, and *laughs softly- come to think of KSMO forum and its members as family. I barely could say word "sex" or "orgasm" without blushing 6 shades of red from embarrassment. NOW I speak openly and very honestly about sex and recently attended a workshop where I spoke about KSMO to several people whom I didn't know and the look of love and joy on my face apparent and the smile on my face as I talked of KSMO with them.

Just relaying it now- the smile is there and the love too.

I am seeing and experiencing more than I ever thought possible. The spiritual journey that I am currently on is just beyond description.

Feel free to ask me for more if I havent answered your question specifically

mog · #3 15th December 2008, 23:26

A wonderful and inspiring reply, Laly

You are the leading light of this forum!

Hugs - Mog

Laly · #4 16th December 2008, 00:48

Thanks Mog

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At first it took me a little while to think if what exactly Roderick wanted me to reply about....

I would like to add that I use KSMO myself to lessen the cramps, pain I get with that time of the month women are "cursed" with. For some reason the pleasure and automatic pelvic roll that accompanies my KSMO practice seems to help release the tight muscles in and around the pelvic region.

It's not something that "hit me" until I really looked back and then it was like "WOW, I never noticed that!"

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roderik · #5 16th December 2008, 20:52

Laly, thanks so much for your post in reply. I guess I was interested in hearing your response both as a woman in regard to the childbirth point as well as to the emotional release aspect, since you’re written so often about this particular aspect of the KSMO practice—release and healing through the key sound and the effects that follow it.

Over the past years, and particularly the past year or so, I’ve become even more aware of things I’ve known about theoretically regarding the “connection” between body, mind and spirit. I put connection in quotes, because it’s like saying the one end of the stick is “connected” to the other. There is no connection, because there’s no separation. The distinctions are in fact conceptual, not actual. An emotional release IS a physical release, and vice versa. I would have agreed with this statement a couple of years ago, but I’ve started to experience this more acutely and practically through experiences like the one I described in my post above. What was it Morpheus said? There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path?...

I am still very much in the re-wiring process, dancing with this energy and experiencing phases and echo effects, but without the full flowering of FBO or MMO as yet. Most of the time it’s pretty easy to accept that and be curious about my process, though I must admit it’s often very inspiring to read about experiences like yours and mog’s, both for the more erotic and physical aspects as well as the likely more important yet by no means unrelated spiritual and holistic emotional fulfillment that I’ve had something of a taste of already. I get to visit with that energy from time to time.

I have to wonder what experience a couple would have going through pregnancy and childbirth having learned KSMO and fully rewired beforehand. I love to brainstorm about these types of things…especially since I have many friends and relatives of the age now that they’re marrying and having babies.

Thanks again for your reply! It makes me very happy to think about the kind of growing I get to experience yet.

Laly · #6 16th December 2008, 22:13

Ahh.. thanks for the clarification Roderick....

Yeah-- the growth that I've done using KSMO is quite amazing...altho I don't regularly practice much any more- the spontaneous feelings/orgasms I do have are in themselves beyond anything I've experienced in my life.

I for one can't wait for you to experience your greatest pleasures/love with KSMO.

HUGS

roderik · #7 19th January 2009, 07:46

Thanks very much for your well wishes Laly. sorry I didn't reply sooner, but I haven't been on the site much lately due to travels and now illness. Bad cold or flu...whatever it is, it's not much fun. I'll try to post more when I have new experiences. It's always good to get such great feedback and encouragement! (:

Laly · #8 19th January 2009, 12:44

roderick- it's okay ...never apologize for things beyond your control.

Sorry to hear about being sick...this season has been a bad one as far as the flu n colds go.

Thank you...that is why we are here--to encourage, support and even help others on his/her journey.

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