Hi Jack, I've just got your CD-ROM audio 4th edition delivered, and am really excited to be ready to starting your course and hope to develop my skills in KSMO together with my wife. We are looking forward to trying the techniques for couples in your seminar. I have had a good look around your Multiples website to see if I can see material specifically for couples. So far I've found very little but somewhere I've seen a reference to a "couples subforum". Please would you point me to the parts of the site where hints and discussion for couples can be found? Thanks.
As background for any comments you may have, I found your site via the aneros forum. Having tried the aneros MGX I didn't find I got very far with it, at least compared with much of the experiences of the guys posting there, but I think using the device started my "rewiring". After a while of using it, I found I could do as well without as with it. By concentrating on the sensations from contracting my pelvic muscles I could get pleasurable feelings and grow them. After some months of practice I found I could reach very enjoyable sensations that are like mini-orgasms but I only got there in a few sessions and it took maybe half an hour to arrive there. When I first tried making your key sound, even though I'm not good at it yet, I could feel delightful sensations as before, but within a few minutes of starting. So far so good!
I have one area of concern that you may be able to comment on. When using the aneros, or doing things with my pelvic muscles, I don't get any erection at all. From my experiences outlined above I can now appreciate that it's not necessary to have an erection to experience great pleasureor the possibility of non-ejaculatory orgasms. But I am worried that my ability to get and keep an erection during normal sexual activity is gradually getting less than it was. (I'm in mid 50s and in good health as far as I know.) When I'm massaging my prostate by muscular actions and/or your key sound methods, it's as if the kind of pleasure I feel, which also comes when I'm excited by normal sexual activity, wins out over the pleasurable feelings based in my penis and then my erection 'loses interest' and tends to subside. I would appreciate any comments you can make or if you can point me towards how to make my erection more secure. I certainly don't want to abandon the new route to pleasure promised by the key sound approach, which I definitely prefer to the aneros, but my concern remains that it could interfere with my ability to sustain an erection. Best wishes, Kando

Kando-first of all let me welcome you to our lovely Forum...

My name is Laly and not knowing what threads you have researched as far as for couples- right off hand I can only offer what members I know whom are sharing KSMO with their life partners--Use google site search button (located at the top) and type in: Pan, Salty's - or Salty, Artform. There are probably others.

Jack suggests for couples to learn KSMO separately at first -if the life partner is wanting to learn KSMO as well.

As for the rest of your questions/concerns- I'll leave that for Jack - or a Male Adept (someone re-wired to KS) to answer. {Being female does limit my advice somewhat}

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Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

Hi Laly
Thanks for your warm welcome - very kind - and helpful comments about couples. I've had a look about and am finding stuff bit by bit. The forum seems very supportive and I hope to keep in touch as my wife and I explore.
Maybe the erection question will bring some comments soon, perhaps from Jack or the experienced guys.
Best wishes
Kando

You are very welcome kando. I am glad you are finding your way in the forum. We here in the forum are very supportive of each other.
I hope that you and your wife do keep in touch and report (if you feel comfortable doing so) on your experiences with the KSMO method. From my stand point, I reflect back on my experiences, I can see how much I've progressed in the three years of my KSMO journey.

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With Love, Light and with a Joyously singing heart,
Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

Hi kando and laly

Thanks laly for the couples connection reference! Hope things are well with you.

kando, I have posted earlier tonight on your more recent thread and talked about the erection situation there. Have you used your Aneros and Super-T-ing with your wife at all?

Essentially you can develop the ability to choose whether to activate the erection/ejaculation system while using KS and or an Aneros in triggering, amplifying or directing the orgasmic energies, solo or with your wife. I am happy to discuss this further with you here or on the other recent thread.

all the best to you and your wife in your explorations

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You are very welcome artform- glad I could help out.

Yeah I am doing much better thank you.

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With Love, Light and with a Joyously singing heart,
Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".