Gold Nugget First multiple orgasms - Success - First non-ejaculatory multiple orgasm experience - CONGRATULATIONS OPENHEART!!!

Oh my god, had first experience of multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms this morning.

Started with self pleasure but I went soft after about 5 minutes
and I felt a wave of energy started to flow up from my feet to my chest.
This wave peaked and slowed down, think I had 6 proper orgasms, followed by a few smaller ones.

This is all a bit of a shock to my belief systems and emotions. Until
this point my main concern was premature ejaculation (an issue I have
found very difficult to get over). Some basic NLP seems to have removed
this issue.

I think it helped that I have been using Chakra meditations for about
a year and experimenting with the Aneros, as this I feel helped
me to experience energy moving through the body and the movements
that occur when a non-ejactulatory orgasm happens. The Imaginary
prostate massage thread on the forum also really was useful.

The other thing that took me a while to get used to was making a lot of
noise while doing the Key sounds. As I live in a shared house the only place to practice is when no-one else is about or when outside. A few loud screams yesterday may have helped almost as much as the key sound practice.

Now I'm wondering how I can use this experience as a building block to
experiencing pleasure with a partner (I'm single at the moment). I'm
still sexually inexperienced with a partner, so please please any advice from those more experienced than myself would be most welcome.

Openheart:

Congratulations!!!!

well done; A new map for the new territory eh?

all the very best

'Z'

I guess the advice depends on how much experience you've had with partners. If you have had little experience then my advice would be to just go out and experience yourself with a partner (sounds rather simple ey? ). Treat your 'traditional' sexual experiences with your partner as you would in your KSMO sessions: relaxed, with an open mind and the intent to enjoy all bodily sensations as they happen. There's no better way to knowing/learning how to do something than just doing it.

If you have plenty of experience with partners and 'traditional' sex.. I would recommend searching the couples sub-forum and posts by Pan who has introduced KSMO into the sexual relationship he has with his partner. (There are probably others but he is the first person that comes to mind).

Lopez

>Oh my god, had first experience of multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms this morning.<

Congratulations Openheart! A major waypoint, brother, but just a small beginning!

>This is all a bit of a shock to my belief systems and emotions.<

That's interesting. Could you enlarge upon that just a little, svp?

>The other thing that took me a while to get used to was making a lot of
noise while doing the Key sounds. As I live in a shared house the only place to practice is when no-one else is about or when outside.<

You have my sympathy! I've never found the need to do a KS in any way other than quietly, in fact I now rarely feel the need to use it at all in my sessions, but when exploring the really high ground of the KSMO the need to make some extremely loud noise becomes irresistable. So I count myself fortunate that my house is fully detached. Nevertheless, to avoid being heard by callers and to give myself adequate time to recover my wits and sort the bedroom out when my partner returns from an excursion, I have installed an early-warning system based on a radio-coupled security alarm. A sensor, attached to the front gates, gives me about 1 minute to quieten down and clear up the evidence!

>A few loud screams yesterday may have helped almost as much as the key sound practice.<

Loud screams are what I'm good at and they are a hallmark of a good KSMO session - nowadays I just have to see the written word or hear it spoken and I begin to feel the Buzz coming on!

>Now I'm wondering how I can use this experience as a building block to
experiencing pleasure with a partner.....<

Can't, sadly, give you any advice on that - sorry. But IMHO, a good basic training in the KSMO will benefit practically any erotic endeavour that a human being is likely to want to explore! So, meanwhile, my advice is to press on with your KSMO adventure and take up with a girl at any time of your choosing, with the expectation that your training will greatly enhance the partnership.

Good luck.

Mog

Hey Openheart, I hope you feel a lot of enthusiastic support for your Grand Opening to Multiple Orgasms from your fellows here in our online community!

Thank you for all the support so far, will post any updates/questions later. As Mog mentioned this is only a small beginning.

I'm really curious about this NLP thing. How does it work?

Kutso

NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming: a brief history

Kutso -- here is a weblink with a brief history about Neuro-Linguistic Programming Therapy.

I am currently seeing a NLP counselor and she is wonderful, very easy to communicate with .

What NLP is and how it works.

This is the best description of what NLP is .



laly

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Laly
Old forum threads of mine :
http://tiny.cc/KOx0x - shy newbie
http://tiny.cc/mt9sd - letting go of anger
http://tiny.cc/wR7Hb - multiple orgasm success-insight

I read this in a book today "You never know how much courage you have until you face your greatest fears head on".

That's great. Glad it helped. I've found that with the same type of visualization I can help feelings grow, expand, or move around slightly.