Sometimes I find myself jealous of the apparent pleasure women seem to get from sex. It seems like the pleasure they feel thoughout sex and at orgasm are much greater than that of men. Is that true? I know it shouldn't but this causes me some anxiety. It is annoying that this even bothers me. It seems like they can just go at it and experience orgasm after orgasm all much better than man's normal single one, and we to experience something like that we have to put a lot of practice into it. I look at women and think, wow, they're so lucky.

I guess I'm just looking for some encouragement here that we can enjoy sex on the same level as women. For me it's usually like "Is that it?". I wouldn't even call what I feel orgasm. Sure it feels nice, but it's nothing to squirm around and moan about.

For the record I have experienced the non-ejac orgasm yet, so that definitely affects my perception of this.

On an unrelated note, is it possible for me to change my username?

Hi Bredelly,

Some comments on your thoughts:

>Sometimes I find myself jealous of the apparent pleasure women seem to get from sex. It seems like the pleasure they feel thoughout sex and at orgasm are much greater than that of men. Is that true?<

I wonder that too. Maybe that's a question without an answer because we cannot experience others' feelings for ourselves. But from several assertions there seems to be a significant proportion of women that have never experienced an orgasm so there might be a wide gamut of orgasmic pleasure that they can experience from the overwhelming to the feeble, or even nothing at all.

But it seems that the female of our species has, in general, a good start upon the male because they do not, by default, inherit the onerous characteristic of an exhausting ejaculative result which, for we fellahs, usually brings a coital adventure to an abrupt ending. I may be writing a lot of nonsense here because I'm no expert but it seems to me that as a woman can perform a sequence of orgasms without exhausting her reserves of physical stamina she can ramp up her performance during a sequence of orgasmic events practically indefinitely. If I'm off the beam here maybe some lady reading this could set me straight.

>It seems like they can just go at it and experience orgasm after orgasm all much better than man's normal single one, and we to experience something like that we have to put a lot of practice into it. I look at women and think, wow, they're so lucky.<

Agreed. But, with practice, we fellahs can do it too!

We males all seem to arrive at puberty in a situation where, by default, the physiological and emotional responses to orgasm occur together and most of us never give a thought to the possible separation of the two. So the majority of us never subsequently learn that the two responses can actually be taken apart and thus enable us to achieve the holy grail of multiple emotional orgasms. Bring on Jack's KSMO!

>I guess I'm just looking for some encouragement here that we can enjoy sex on the same level as women.<

I'm nearly at my third KSMO anniversary and I'm now fortunate enough to experience the most phenomenal mind-blowing MMOs, the like of which I never for a moment thought remotely possible and, moreover, for hours of my choosing. The thought that women are more fortunate therefore never now occurs to me. It need not be a consideration for you either. You are fairly new to the practice so you probably have some way to go before you achieve your full potential but you probably have equal opportunity to arrive at the goal of unlimited orgasm as I and many others have done.

>For me it's usually like "Is that it?". I wouldn't even call what I feel orgasm. Sure it feels nice, but it's nothing to squirm around and moan about.<

Along the trail you will probably experience disappointments and feel that you are not getting anywhere. On the other hand you will encounter sudden, unanticipated and substantial surges in progress which will surprise and encourage you.

Practice and patience is the only answer.

Good luck,

Mog

I guess I'd group myself with those women, though a man, as one who has never had a real orgasm(of course I have ejaculated though), at least through sexual stimulation. You can see the post on rope climbing that I responded to.

http://www.multiples.com/howtolastlo...=5642#post5642

That was definitely an orgasm. It felt wonderful throughout my whole body. I think that happened about twice, both times in gym class with people watching . I'd say it was 10-100 times better than anything I've felt during masturbation. I guess if I could feel that again once, let alone multiple times in a session I would be extremely satisfied.

>That was definitely an orgasm. It felt wonderful throughout my whole body. I think that happened about twice, both times in gym class with people watching.<

As far as I can remember I never had such an experience, except, that is, until I became proficient in the KSMMO. Now one of the best features of a typical MMO session for me is the extraordinary full-bodied orgasmic sensations that can be brought about just by stretching the limbs whilst in a prone position.

I usually become totally immersed in the orgasmic sensations after about 30 mins from the start of a session and when in this condition it becomes easy to precipitate the next big one by simply stretching either the legs, arms or both together. If the arms stretch is made to involve the torso and especially the shoulders, just as if one were hanging from a beam, the sensation is very much enhanced. I've not tried actually hanging onto something but I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that some new extremes of sensation would result. OMG - I'm starting to get the buzz just thinking about that!

>I'd say it was 10-100 times better than anything I've felt during masturbation.<

I can well believe that! It seems that you were experiencing a genuine full-body orgasm of sorts.

>I guess if I could feel that again once, let alone multiple times in a session I would be extremely satisfied.<

I, personally, don't find your orgasmic stretching experiences at all strange. If my own experience is anything to judge by, if you press on with your KSMO training you could expect those sensations to eventually return, and in full measure, too.

I wonder what seems to be holding up your progress along the KSMO trail - could you be trying to allow or push yourself into orgasm much too soon? I find that the best events occur if I desist from orgasm until it becomes impossible any longer to hold back.

Mog.