Regarding MMO, Various Techniques Comparison:
I have been working on this for several years, starting with an obscure research book from a ?marital? lab in California, using Brauers? ?ESO?books, Body Electric techniques, tantric techniques and Jack?s ?EMO?. Here?s what works for me, and maybe for you:
1. Realize that ?orgasm? is a great feeling that results from muscle spasms induced by stimulating the right nerve endings. Ejaculation is a corresponding spasm, with the release of semen into the uretha at the proper time and other hormones into your bloodstream.
2. Just as with ?normal? ejaculorgasms, some non-ejaculorgasms are better, more intense than others, no matter what the technique used, whether ?EMO? or other techniques.
3. Brauers and other really teach you to hold your ejaculation back by contraction of the PC muscles, through ?Kegel? practice. This requires,literally, months or years of strenghtening these muscles around your uretha and anus, and instead of being able to realz an enjoy your pleasure, you must exert tremendous concentration and muscle energy...lose your focus or relax your PC/sphincter for a micro second, and ...spurt...spurt...spurt.
4. I?ve found that haveing very strong PC/sphincter muscles makes the EMO pleasures very intense, and every bit or better than traditional ejaculorgasms (let?s call em ?EO?s?). You can work these as follows:
5. PC?s: find this group by stopping urination just after starting, especially when you have to go really urgently. Learn the muscles, and contract them a zillion times a day...drive time is the best, plus you can focus on that work, even to music if you want,instead of worrying about something else.
6. Sphincter: you know this one, and learning control of this area also teaches you to realize that ?uptight? is more than a colloquialism from the ?60?s. What you may not know is that contracting and relaxing this muscle group relaxes yoru whole body. Check it out when in Jack?s EMO position, this area is exposed to vieew, and you?ll need a mirror to check your workout,justlike any body building workout.
7. When you do Jack?s ?roar?, you expand the lower belly, and if you do it right, you will expand and push out the sphincter.
8. Once you know how the sphincter feels when you work it out anywhere, and especially in connection with you PC?s.
9. I found a greatplace to practice all of this plus Jack?s techniques is at drive time. You can press on your hotspots through your pants, and practice the breath and muscle work, plus roar as loud as you want...nothing unusual anymore to see wierdos on the road...the other drivers will think you are rockin-out (which you will be). BUT WATCH YOUR DRIVING...JUST STAY SHORT OF EMO.
10. The biggest help to me was to finally relaize how all these muscles contract and tense during traditional EO; once, take it really slow with your usual j/o technique, and you?ll see,too. Curled toes, tensed legs, puckered glutes and sphincter, and what else...you hold your breath at the moment of EO. Once you release semen, you breathe deep and long, and the spasms plus the endorphine release gives the great pleasure.
11. With EMO,the main difference boils down to ?breath control?...mainly keep breathing deep and full, and keep pushing yououtward breath out through your belly...Jack?s roar and in tantra...budda breath...your belly pushes out...not in like your traditional deepbreathing.
12. With EMO, tantra, and thesetype of techniques, you will find that you can literally ?lose your mind? to the pleasure, which can go on for hours if you wish. You ll be surprised, but after two or three EMO?s at ?near EO?, you can keep breathing until you lose your erection. When you are completely flacid, give your pal a rigorous shaking while keeping your breathing up...the energy flow is incredible...
13. Main thing, relax and practice...its only for fun afterall. Besides, what?s the worst that can happen? Spurt, spurt.

Wow John, thanks so very much for this thoughtful and detailed post. EXXXXCELLENT!!!

Comments, other readers?

John, I hope you'll be able to join in on our chats from time to time. You, tantrabear, and Jesse all seem to have a very good "feel" for what I've been talking about here. You offer a tremendous resource of advice and suggestions to our other brothers and sisters who are still on the quest.

Note I mention sisters as well, because the breathing and sound techniques we describe here are equally effective for them!

Thanks again,
Jack

JHill.. thanks for your GREAT no-nonsense words and spurt-spurt humor. I do kegels regularly, too, and find that my ejaculations are much more powerful. (Read: pleasurable). I do my repetitions while running on the treadmill. May as well do a couple things at once, huh? ;-) Jesse.

May I add to every ones thanks here, just spot on stuff John. I use these exercises generally when I?m sitting cross legged, if I wake up in the middle of the night and combine them with yoga eye movements and head movements, along with belly centred breathing - a series of simple yoga stretch exercises I do in the mornings also adds to MMO pleasure. Sometimes the exercises seem a bit of an effort but in the main its just a jolly fun thing to do.

JHill: I really appreciate the descriptive post! The detail helps to confirm that I have been doing the exercises correctly and which direction to go. I also do Jack's exercises in the car, lets me really express the key sound and there is even some stimulation from the bumps in the road

Great post, JHill!! You gave me some ideas for my daily MMO training!!! THANKS!

I saw that when I'm masturbatin' myself in the moment the energy starts filling my penis I close my eyes and my mind FULLY focuses itself on penis pleasure. I think staying centered (like jesse suggested) while doing MMO practice can help you a lot!!

Have FUN!!!
Tac

P.S.: AGAIN, I'm sorry for my poor English!!

From Dmitri, Russia


Is your technique have any connection with meditation, kama-sutra
or other things? I practice martial arts and I like to do experiments
with human body, mine or my partners. Not for sadism/masohism but
for knowledge.

On 8/23/97 2:40:17 PM, Emailer wrote:
>From Dmitri, Russia
>
>
>Is your technique have any
>connection with meditation,
>kama-sutra
>or other things? I practice
>martial arts and I like to do
>experiments
>with human body, mine or my
>partners. Not for
>sadism/masohism but
>for knowledge.
>

I personally approach the practice of the MMO techniques I teach as a form of tantric meditation. It was with this attitude that I first began to ask my "deeper selves and cells" for the knowledge on how to HAVE these kinds of orgasms. I assumed that it is JUST AS NATURAL AND EASY FOR MEN AS IT IS FOR WOMEN to have multiple orgasms (for men: without ejaculating).

I assumed that the knowledge of how a man can do this is coded into our DNA. I then used this assumption as a frame of mind for approaching my tantric meditation. I used the rising erotic energy as the focus of that meditation. Since I have discovered the Key Sound, I now use the DEGREE TO WHICH THE KEY SOUND __RESONATES__ TO ME PHYSICALLY as the focus of that meditation. Please explore this web board and the chat archives index of the main web site http://www.multiples.com/chats/multi..._archives.html using the keyword "resonance" or "resonant" to find more details about this concept.

You can search the web board by hitting the search button on the black menu bar and typing in the keyword. On the main website, the Annotated Chat Archive Index is searchable by using the "Find" function of your browser (in Netscape, it's in the Edit menu) and entering the keyword.

Jack

From Emailer Steve:

I learned MMO several years ago based upon the following premise: every
intermmediate to long term relationship I've been in with a woman resulted
in teaching her how to have multiple orgasms. After repeating this pattern
several times over the years and knowing that anatomically male and female
brains are virtually "wired the same", I logically concluded somehow men
must be able to learn how to have multiple orgasm just as woman do. In my
experience women are not spontaneously multiple orgasmic, they learn it at
some point in life under the right conditions.

For some time I felt completely alone in this knowledge until I found your
web site. I've read some of the postings and identify completely with most
of the information! One exception however, I do not use the voice /
breathing techniques described for controling the ejaculatory reflex. In
my own case ejaculation and orgasm are perfectly separated in my brain and
find the enjoyment of orgasm unhampered by the distraction of trying to
control ejaculatory response.

My question is- what is the general awareness level among men and women
about MMO? I have a feeling we are a very tiny minority. Are there other
organizations like this one?

Thank You

> I learned MMO several years ago based upon the following premise: every
> intermmediate to long term relationship I've been in with a woman resulted
> in teaching her how to have multiple orgasms. After repeating this pattern
> several times over the years and knowing that anatomically male and female
> brains are virtually "wired the same", I logically concluded somehow men
> must be able to learn how to have multiple orgasm just as woman do.

Yes, this is exactly the working hypothesis I also used to begin
searching for a means of non-ejaculatory multiple orgasm that did not
require squeezing the penis, the PC muscle, or other forms of
brinkmanship or holding back of the energy.


> In my
> experience women are not spontaneously multiple orgasmic, they learn it at
> some point in life under the right conditions.
>
> For some time I felt completely alone in this knowledge until I found your
> web site. I've read some of the postings and identify completely with most
> of the information!

Cool!

> One exception however, I do not use the voice /
> breathing techniques described for controling the ejaculatory reflex. In
> my own case ejaculation and orgasm are perfectly separated in my brain and
> find the enjoyment of orgasm unhampered by the distraction of trying to
> control ejaculatory response.

I hope you will post to the bulletin board how you learned to "perfectly
separate orgasm and ejaculation in your brain." This will expand our
knowledge base! You may find others who will profit from this.

Although you do not use the Key Sound, we are in agreement about efforts
at CONTROLLING ejaculatory response are a DISTRACTION. I repeat this
concept frequently. It's a paradox really, that to correctly learn MMO
that I'm describing, one must RELEASE the urge and the mindset to try to
CONTROL ejaculation. The whole purpose of the Key Sound is to GIVE THE
RISING EROTIC ENERGY ANOTHER AVENUE OF EXPRESSION besides out of the
penis through ejaculation. To me this is NOT about trying to CONTROL
ejaculation.

Others who have learned MMO using the Key Sound have validated this
frame of mind: that one must LET GO OF CONTROL in order to send the
energy fully into the Key Sound.
> My question is- what is the general awareness level among men and women
> about MMO? I have a feeling we are a very tiny minority.

Perhaps, but our global community is growing! Visitors to my web site
have QUADRUPLED during the last two months alone, so please spread the
word! :-)


> Are there other
> organizations like this one?

Of course there are several newsgroups in the alt.sex hierarchy, e.g.
alt.sex.wizards, alt.sex.masturbation, etc. although I confess I just
haven't had time to check in with them for quite a while. There are also
various tantric organizations, quodoshka practitioners, etc. Although
some of these methods are somewhat similar to the way I teach MMO, I
have never found any which describe use of the _specific_ Key Sound
which I teach and which so many have found to be so effective. It would
be great as you discover these other links to post them to our bulletin
board, again to build our overall knowledge base.
>
> Thank You
And thanks to YOU! Please post your comments to our bulletin board
directly, if you'd be so kind... I'll be happy to respond to them there,
and saves me a lot of cutting and pasting, since I like to have your
comments and questions there as well. Remember you can post privately by
using pseudonyms in all of the "required" login fields.

Best wishes,
Jack