Re: Thoughts and questions from a beginner
That's great news, Even!
RE: The almost there feeling... that is a signal to remember to relax. There's often a tendency to tense up or automatically hold one's breath at that point, or to revert to the ejaculation-blocking tendency of tightening up one's muscles in the genital area.
Instead, the multiple orgasm secret is to relax and continue to do two to four relaxing breaths, and then when you articulate the Key Sound™, just imagine that you are ejaculating orgasmic energy out through the Key Sound™.
Of course that means that the sound may be louder but hopefully you're in a setting where you feel ok allowing that.
If privacy is an issue, you can lightly rest a pillow over your mouth and project the sound into the pillow.
Be sure not to use the pillow or anything else that will impair your ability to inhale, however!
NOTE also that it may seem like you're about to ejaculate.
Although that feeling may be very strong, it may or may not be the case. If you do, that's ok! You will nevertheless learn something from that!
Nevertheless, you may feel like you're ejaculating, you may even experience some muscle contractions, yet not ejaculate.
It's all part of your getting to know your sexual self that much better! It's all part of learning this process.
Wishing you the best!
Jack
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