Yo Monkey Magic,

I'm curious about that Rmax training. Is it similar to Rolfing? What are the goals of it? Body therapy is one of my main interests, as I like the work of Wilhielm Reich...

"This is my introduction, I just purchased the program last week."

:::::::::Wow, cool! What a fun thing to start out on!

"I am looking to increase my orgasmic capabilities as my girlfriend is always having amazing multiple orgasms while I usually look on. It's great that she is having so much pleasure but I would kind of like to join in."

::::::::::::::I know the feeling. When I first started looking for MMO, I was with a chick that had multiple orgasms out the waaazooo.... I have another perspective on this though, and it is this: Sometimes people have multiple orgasms in order to discharge their sexual energy before it reaches it's full potential. This happens a lot with women who have them.

::::::::::::::I'll go back to Wilhelm Reich's perspective. Ultimately, orgasm should be a release into involuntary, uncontrolled spasms that take over the body. I used to watch people on beautiful agony - facettes de la petite mort view. I still think that website is a cool concept. Anyhow, only every now and then would someone be experiencing a relatively total clonic spasm on the videos...

:::::::::Of course, I don't mean this as a judgement on anyone's experience, it's just another perspective. Perhaps the way our society teaches us to think of orgasms is messed up... is that too far fetched for me to suggest? I think the best orgasms leave the whole body buzzing and vibrating all over for awhile afterwords....

"I have good ejaculatory control and can have a few involuntary pc muscle contractions (a genital orgasm) but they are small and random."

::::::::::I'm personally not fond of PC muscle strength techniques to stop ejaculation. I like the book, "the intimate couple" for techniques to employ grounding during sex, and neat ways to find more connection and pleasure... I've gotten more out of that book than sex techniques, lol.. actually, I liked it so much that I went through a period where I kept buying copies and giving them to my friends, because I felt it was such a good book.

"I have had two sessions using the keysound so far.

Both interesting, there were some goosebumps... some interesting sensations and a pleasant, but not 'orgasmic' feeling."

::::::::::::::::One thing I think we all agree upon after exploring all this for awhile is that what we think of as "an orgasm" changes after awhile. And if you had a certain definition, "this is an orgasm" then you could stop there, and maybe wonder why others were getting more results or different results... then after things improve, I think it's tempting to say, "ahhhhh, now I know what an orgasm feels like" and stop there for awhile... then I started to wonder why other people I knew were having better results and deeper results than me... In my Qi Kung school we do a lot of sexual Qi Kung and I believe it is very useful to always keep a little curiousity about things, and a little bit of not knowing exactly what you're moving towards... I don't mean that in any mystical way, it's just that WHAT YOU"RE STUDYING can go in so many directions and potentially include so many different experiences..

"I understand about not trying to push for orgasm, however, and I just lay and enjoy the chance to have a lie down and rest and not worry about doing anything for a while."

Awsome. I think that's a great approach to any new technique...

"I don't have a lot of time at the moment to browse through archives and read lots of stuff... I am a school teacher and only use the internet during my free periods at work (when I should be lesson planning) and do not currently have internet at home."

:::::::::::::::::o you teach English in Thailand? I'm trying to get to go do that in Taiwan o Korea. I've wanted to do so for years and just recently graduated from college...

"I am 26, male and live in Thailand (although I am from Australia) and have a beautiful and lovely, loving Thai girlfriend."

Dude, that sounds awsome. It's nice to have someone to experiment with.

--Jonathan::::Ambient