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Originally Posted by Kutso
So, I've been practicing regularly now. And all I can say is that is does have some effects. I mean, I haven't had fireworks yet, but I get a REALLY high arousal every session now. Feels like I'm going to explode soon if it increases more.
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Kutso, If you're feeling the energy all pent up, remember to use the technique of allowing that energy to flow out through the
sound.
I think one of the reasons you're having trouble calming down, even after ejaculation, is that perhaps you may not be allowing the
spontaneous vocalization that naturally accompanies higher arousal -
provided we don't block it.
What do you think?
Note that this
spontaneous sound should also be as relaxed as possible. It's important to keep your throat relaxed so you don't strain your vocal chords.
Since it's spontaneous, it doesn't have to be a Key Sound™, just whatever sound wants to come out, but with a relaxed voice and throat to the extent possible. A lower sound (without straining!) is better because this too helps keep the vocal chords looser.
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Anyway, today was my day between sessions, and I wanted to do some good old time standard masturbation. I was actually quite aroused before I began, I guess that's the echoes.
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Yes, in effect. You are expanding your ability to
access your body's full multiorgasmic potential.
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Okay so I ended up ejaculating. But then what happened was a bit annoying. I didn't feel much of a relief. No release so to speak. I was almost as aroused as before I began masturbating.
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Again that could be because you may not have been
allowing enough vocalization.
Please remember,
the arousal has to go somewhere. So it's very important to allow the spontaneous sounds.
If you are with your wife when doing this, it is likewise
very important to be
sure to
turn your head to the side so the sound does not hurt her ears!
An alternative to turning to the side when with a partner is, with her permission, to direct these sounds into her heart or other body area... This can serve to muffle the sound, yet your partner will feel the energy and that can be very arousing for
her.
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So, I wanted to ask if anyone else has had the same kind of experience?
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It is not uncommon!
Likewise, after ejaculating, for example, if you feel more aroused than feels good to you, take a shower or bath that may be slightly cooler than is typical - don't get a chill though!
For some people a warmer bath or shower can have a similar calming and
grounding effect, that is, it helps this arousal energy dissipate.
Likewise if you're feeling frustrated or upset about this, then it's a good idea to take a few days or even a week off of active practice.
That is, if high arousal is bothering you, take a break from doing activities that are designed to elevate arousal - for example the 20 minute Multiple Orgasm Trigger Protocol™ practice sessions.
Perhaps replace them for a while with meditation, Tai Chi, or some other
calming practice.
I hope these suggestions are helpful, and that you'll keep us posted as to how things are going for you.
Wishing you and her all the very best,
Jack