Hi Jack,

Thank you very much on your reply, this is greatly appreciated ! I've read all your comments and did the little exercise you asked me at the end. On that part, your proposition is simple : stay clear of all downward and negative comments, stay positive, every good feeling is a good step in the right way. The second paragraph you submitted me is what I should aim for and what makes me feel good to read out loud. I understand the traps that are lying before me. All your comments were pointing to what I was doing wrong (though with alot of encouragement), which is "stop trying, start letting it going". I guess I understand that with my first 3 sessions, pushing the sensation and concentrating on getting them will lead me inexorably to the same place a regular orgasm would lead me; even more so that with this kind of practice, it would not even give me a regular orgasm (unless lucky on that day).

I will post another reply in a litlle while, but I will meditate on your suggestions of RELAXING instead of CONCENTRATING. I'll find a way to let it happen instand making it happen.

Thank you again, hope to read from you soon.

Fantome