> While browsing a Barnes & Noble in Miami, I picked up some books (1) "The
Multi Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava, and (2)
Extended Sexual Orgasm by Alan and Donna Brauer.
>
> (1) is based on Taoist beliefs and techniques while (2) is seems to be based on
delaying orgasm.
>
> I read your booklet on the plane but have not had chance to listen to the tape.
Let me know what you think, once you do...
> Some questions:
> Are you familiar with book (1)
Yes.
and is it similar to your "technique"?
No.
> Would reading these conflict with your "technique"?
> regards,
>
> Marc
>
Well, I don't know about "conflict", but my approach and methods ARE different.
Chia's method and philosophy didn't really appeal to me. Nor did ESO which is a
brinkmanship method. Both seem to involve a forceful tensing of muscles, etc.
My method IMHO is revolutionary for men because it gives us a way to RELAX
and FULLY ENJOY THE PLEASURE, not having to worry about trying to
STOP anything from happening! Using the Key Sound, you can just project all of
that pent up energy into your body, into the eyes or other body parts of your lover
(EXCEPT the ears!) and into the Cosmos, with FULL surrender and enjoyment!
That's one of the reasons I went to the trouble to discover a method that wasn't
counterintuitive. Barbara Keesling's stuff is much closer (see her blurb about my
work on the back of the MMO box), but for me the critical element is the Key
(or Ki) Sound.
That SPECIFIC sound when done correctly moves the abdominal and pelvic
musculature in such a way as to DEfocus the usual concentration of erotic energy
from the penis while PUMPING it into the rest of your body.
The body then typically responds with an "Echo Effect" (see past chats for a
discussion of this:
http://www.multiples.com/chats/multi..._archives.html
Some people like Drew liken this to "pushing water in a bathtub"... i.e., the Key
Sound is like pushing the water, the "Echo Effect" or wave of spontaneous
pleasure that happens in response is like the water in a tub returning back to you...
as you continue to use the Key Sound in this way as erotic energy builds,
(refer to
http://www.multiples.com/timing.htm as well as the chat archive for
knowing how and when to use the Key Sound)
those "waves" get bigger and bigger until... WOWWWW!!! Sometimes
ejaculation happens, but if you cease the stimulation and just pump the energy
with the Key Sound and the "Valley Breath" that most resonantly expresses the
Key Sound, the NON-ejac multiples "come" right at ya!
Thanks very much for the question Marc!