Hi Bredelly,

Some comments on your thoughts:

>Sometimes I find myself jealous of the apparent pleasure women seem to get from sex. It seems like the pleasure they feel thoughout sex and at orgasm are much greater than that of men. Is that true?<

I wonder that too. Maybe that's a question without an answer because we cannot experience others' feelings for ourselves. But from several assertions there seems to be a significant proportion of women that have never experienced an orgasm so there might be a wide gamut of orgasmic pleasure that they can experience from the overwhelming to the feeble, or even nothing at all.

But it seems that the female of our species has, in general, a good start upon the male because they do not, by default, inherit the onerous characteristic of an exhausting ejaculative result which, for we fellahs, usually brings a coital adventure to an abrupt ending. I may be writing a lot of nonsense here because I'm no expert but it seems to me that as a woman can perform a sequence of orgasms without exhausting her reserves of physical stamina she can ramp up her performance during a sequence of orgasmic events practically indefinitely. If I'm off the beam here maybe some lady reading this could set me straight.

>It seems like they can just go at it and experience orgasm after orgasm all much better than man's normal single one, and we to experience something like that we have to put a lot of practice into it. I look at women and think, wow, they're so lucky.<

Agreed. But, with practice, we fellahs can do it too!

We males all seem to arrive at puberty in a situation where, by default, the physiological and emotional responses to orgasm occur together and most of us never give a thought to the possible separation of the two. So the majority of us never subsequently learn that the two responses can actually be taken apart and thus enable us to achieve the holy grail of multiple emotional orgasms. Bring on Jack's KSMO!

>I guess I'm just looking for some encouragement here that we can enjoy sex on the same level as women.<

I'm nearly at my third KSMO anniversary and I'm now fortunate enough to experience the most phenomenal mind-blowing MMOs, the like of which I never for a moment thought remotely possible and, moreover, for hours of my choosing. The thought that women are more fortunate therefore never now occurs to me. It need not be a consideration for you either. You are fairly new to the practice so you probably have some way to go before you achieve your full potential but you probably have equal opportunity to arrive at the goal of unlimited orgasm as I and many others have done.

>For me it's usually like "Is that it?". I wouldn't even call what I feel orgasm. Sure it feels nice, but it's nothing to squirm around and moan about.<

Along the trail you will probably experience disappointments and feel that you are not getting anywhere. On the other hand you will encounter sudden, unanticipated and substantial surges in progress which will surprise and encourage you.

Practice and patience is the only answer.

Good luck,

Mog