Sometimes I find myself jealous of the apparent pleasure women seem to get from sex. It seems like the pleasure they feel thoughout sex and at orgasm are much greater than that of men. Is that true? I know it shouldn't but this causes me some anxiety. It is annoying that this even bothers me. It seems like they can just go at it and experience orgasm after orgasm all much better than man's normal single one, and we to experience something like that we have to put a lot of practice into it. I look at women and think, wow, they're so lucky.

I guess I'm just looking for some encouragement here that we can enjoy sex on the same level as women. For me it's usually like "Is that it?". I wouldn't even call what I feel orgasm. Sure it feels nice, but it's nothing to squirm around and moan about.

For the record I have experienced the non-ejac orgasm yet, so that definitely affects my perception of this.

On an unrelated note, is it possible for me to change my username?