Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
Hey Pan,
|
Hi OnthePath,
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
Based on your recommendation, I bought the Maxwell Multiple Climax DVD. I should be receiving it within a couple weeks. When I first looked at it, I thought it was a bit too cartoonish, but you mentioned that it is a light-hearted approach that doesn’t take itself too seriously. Perhaps I need to lighten up a bit myself! J
|
Well I think when it comes to something like MMO's, most of us do! That's where I see the real value in Maxwell's DVD. It's like a mini-Tantra lesson wrapped in a comedy skit. So it's a constant reminder not to take the learning process too seriously. The funny thing is, the Maxwell lesson itself, in my opinion, isn't even all that profound. But the way it's delivered is what makes it memorable.
In fact, if anything, my hope is that when you see the DVD, you'll apply that same attitude to your KSMO practice. Because, in all honesty, I really do believe you'll get much more out of KSMO in the long run.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
I hope that you didn’t reveal all of the secrets to the technique in your post. If so, you may want to consider revising it to make it a little more generic. The way it is now, it may provide enough detail so that people might want to try and master the technique based on the info you provide rather than buying it. Like Jack, I’m sure the author wants to keep the details of the technique for customers that have bought the DVD. Otherwise, there won’t be much value to it (for the author that is).
|
I understand your concern. I admit, I was a little hesitant and unsure about how to explain the Maxwell technique here. And of course, I'm more than willing to edit the post if it becomes apparent that I made a mistake in doing so.
I struggled a bit with how to answer Jack's request for a "brief summary of the distinguishing characteristics of the method." I wanted to be honest and informative while maintaining a proper respect for both methods.
But, as far as Mr. Maxwell is concerned, I don't believe I've taken anything away from him by discussing his technique because, by his own admission, it's not really his "invention." It's actually been around centuries, taught in hundreds of books and videos, and can easily be found taught on any number of websites across the Net for free. He just thought of an entertaining new way to package and sell it!
My real concern was that practitioners of KSMO who haven't yet become fully multi-orgasmic would try to incorporate or combine the Maxwell technique with their current practice and therefore, most likely disrupt or hinder their progress. Like I said, each technique is essentially the opposite of the other, so they don't really mix well in my opinion, even when practiced separately.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
Like my Aneros sessions, I intend to keep the Maxwell sessions separate from KSMO. I’ve also been reading and practicing the techniques in the ESO - Extended Sexual Orgasm book by Brauer and Brauer that is mentioned on the Aneros site. Both of these techniques seem to be similar, based on lots of stimulation, but they still have differences. I just view them as another tool in my sexual toolbox.
|
Well, I don't have any experience with ESO, so I can't comment on that method specifically. But as a fellow Aneros user, I can say that I've always believed it's much easier to become multi-orgasmic naturally (such as through KSMO practice) before attempting to do so with a device like the Aneros. I'm certainly a believer in having multiple tools in one's toolbox. But I also believe that success comes most easily to those who choose to master one tool at a time.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
I experienced the briefest intense wave of orgasmic pleasure with KSMO a few months ago, but unfortunately it hasn’t happened since. Experiencing that is part of what keeps me going forward with the practice. I currently experience a lot of pelvic contractions and blissfull tingling waves all over my body when the contractions stop, so it’s not like I’m not enjoying what I’m feeling now, but it seems that I’ve reached a long plateau. This is also what I’m experiencing with my Aneros sessions. Without experiencing that brief wave of orgasmic pleasure, I can see why you might be concerned that some guys might feel that the Maxwell Multiple Climax is the only way to experience multiple orgasms. After all, it’s quick and easy. Hopefully, it will be the same for me! But I know that what I experienced during that KSMO session was more intense than anything I’ve ever felt before, so I want to keep practicing in the hope that I will experience it again. My advice to other guys is to keep your other practices separate from one another and value each for what they offer but realize that they are different.
|
Well, I certainly wish you the greatest success with any and all techniques you decide to pursue. However, it occurs to me now something I should have mentioned in my prior post, I believe the reason why I picked up the Maxwell technique so quickly (took about an hour) is because I had already been multi-orgasmic for years, first through KSMO, followed by a variety of other techniques that I had each given my full attention to in turn.
In his video, Mr. Maxwell explains that while some men will pick up the technique quite quickly, most will require several weeks on average, and this is assuming they are not spreading their focus among other methods and techniques simultaneously.
Now, it's certainly possible that you may find success (as it's defined by Mr. Maxwell) with the Maxwell technique very quickly. However, my concern is that success in one area may actually hinder your progress in another. You may for instance, find yourself having trouble letting go of that "instant gratification" aspect I associate with the Maxwell technique in order to fully experience all that KSMO has to offer.
It is my humble opinion that it's much better to master KSMO prior to other techniques because, in my experience, the secret to every other technique I've encountered (including the Aneros) is contained within the process of learning KSMO.
Also, I hope you'll keep in mind that plateaus are quite common in any sexual practice (I've had quite a few of them myself!). And I believe they are often just opportunities in disguise. So my advice would be to re-examine your current practice and more importantly how you feel about your experiences. One thing I would stress here is that focusing on one great moment or feeling from a past session can sometimes limit your awareness of even better feelings, waiting just below the surface to be experienced.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onthepath
As always, I enjoy reading your posts here and on the Aneros site. I need to go back and re-read your “What does it feel like” post here on the KSMO site!
|
Thank you OnthePath. Actually I'm glad you brought that post up, because I think it gives some inkling of how much more KSMO has to offer than anything else I've tried.
I look forward to hearing your opinion of the Maxwell DVD and wish you the very best in all your practices!
Pan