I personally like you Laly, and consider us friends, I accept you.

I do hope you take the step and begin seeing a counselor, I understand why seeing another person under such conditions is very hard; issues of trust and possibly being vulnerable can easily block a person from taking that step. You have my compassion and my support.

From my experiences with counseling, it was more about learning ways to be more comfortable with what happened and becoming ok about the personal toll it took during the years that followed. Counseling was a gradual process, and I never once felt I was being pushed to open up or any of that, in time I became very comfortable about seeing my counselor.

I hope my words help to melt some of the anxiety.

Laguna