I qualify as a newbie, even though I've practiced off and on for about 2 years. I've read through the success stories, and many of the other posts, and realize this is a learnable skill, but I need some help.

While practicing the Key Sound and valley breathing, I do feel sensations around my penis and thighs, but they are very light, and when I find myself "pushing" to make the feelings more pronounced, I just stop. One of the issues for me is not feeling "aroused" until right before I ejaculate, and I think I expect the use of the Key Sound to provide that arousal.

I purchased the Aneros after reading the review, and hoped that this device would provide added arousal. While I am amazed at the science that has gone into the development of this amazing tool, even with it inserted, I still get to a plateau, and actually get annoyed after a while, so I end up masturbating, or just stopping altogether.

Thanks in advance for any help and direction you might be able to give me.