Ecstatic Energies and the Art of Living
Erotic energies and our intentions, transformations and care of these gifts constitute a key artform in our lives. There is such beauty in this bliss, well beyond the joys of sexual responses, this bliss can float us in intentional ways to exceptional heights in personal, interpersonal, social and community life. Ohhh! That was a Heartgasm...
Erotic energies and our intentions, transformations and care of these gifts constitute a key artform in our lives. There is such beauty in this bliss, well beyond the joys of sexual responses, this bliss can float us in intentional ways to exceptional heights in personal, interpersonal, social and community life. Ohhh! That was a Heartgasm...
Energies and Transformations
After sensing a misunderstanding in the Aneros Chat focused on KSMO, and having the very good discussion in our Evening KSMO Chat later on the 10th, I have been reflecting a lot on the nature of what I have experienced over the last year and a bit, referring back to the Three Models post earlier.
The question is, how expansive, transformable and transformative are the energies that can be tapped and directed using the Key Sound?
I would really appreciate thoughts and points of view from other perspectives.
This morning, mrs. a and I stayed in bed after waking early and had a wonderful time. After early delights and some traditional p>v intercourse we settled down to our intent which was focused more on her prostate (G-spot), still penile/vaginal rather that our mutual manual Wedding Band position.
She likes still times as well as the traditional motion and I enjoy the still times very much too! During them, I use focused contractions to pulse energy and she can feel not just the remote movement, but the energy transfer.
In other posts I have mentioned the focused abilities to selectively move tissues at my prostate and/or perineum as well as the anus and testicles. I developed this using my Aneros MGX to exercise and develop these abilities and the muscle memories that let me call them up at will. I have also practised the Key Sound with them during that training to be able to use it to amplify and direct them.
During the still times this morning we experimented to see if she could feel the movement and get the energies from each of these locations independently as well as combinations. Did she ever! These were each distinctly different for her as they are in me as I am doing it.
I use the Key Sound, which for me has progressively become lower and somewhere between a growl and a deep purring... to amplify and at time direct these energy productions and transfers. Today, on one occasion I almost blew a fuse boosting a perineum jolt which exploded there like a burst of light and shot an electric jolt up the penis. That Key Sound is the handiest tool a man can have! LOL.
During even the gentlest loving energy play this morning, mrs. a was orgasming repeatedly with dry body-motion/vocalisation orgasms and I was enjoying dry multiples of varying intensities up to Super-Os in Aneros lingo. This was a Tantric Breakfast Body Banquet extraordinaire.
At the same time, I have been experiencing the spontaneous energy transfer (and transformation!) to my sacrum and lower back/base of spine generally. From "Butt Buzz" to "Base/Back Buzz"... That energy is different and does not feel specifically erotic, but rather is more like chi and a whole body energizing in a "zest for life" and mind/body bliss mode.
Such energy transformation and diversity of application is part of Tantra and Tao as I read and attempt to understand them through what my body is telling me through our experiences.
I have reworked and rewritten the blog title and introduction to try to be clearer about our experiences and the intentions here. My appreciation to Aneros and KSMO just keeps growing too!!!
Have any others here, who are also practioners of Tantra and/or Tao also worked with the Key Sound across this wide ecstatic energies spectrum?
The question is, how expansive, transformable and transformative are the energies that can be tapped and directed using the Key Sound?
I would really appreciate thoughts and points of view from other perspectives.
This morning, mrs. a and I stayed in bed after waking early and had a wonderful time. After early delights and some traditional p>v intercourse we settled down to our intent which was focused more on her prostate (G-spot), still penile/vaginal rather that our mutual manual Wedding Band position.
She likes still times as well as the traditional motion and I enjoy the still times very much too! During them, I use focused contractions to pulse energy and she can feel not just the remote movement, but the energy transfer.
In other posts I have mentioned the focused abilities to selectively move tissues at my prostate and/or perineum as well as the anus and testicles. I developed this using my Aneros MGX to exercise and develop these abilities and the muscle memories that let me call them up at will. I have also practised the Key Sound with them during that training to be able to use it to amplify and direct them.
During the still times this morning we experimented to see if she could feel the movement and get the energies from each of these locations independently as well as combinations. Did she ever! These were each distinctly different for her as they are in me as I am doing it.
I use the Key Sound, which for me has progressively become lower and somewhere between a growl and a deep purring... to amplify and at time direct these energy productions and transfers. Today, on one occasion I almost blew a fuse boosting a perineum jolt which exploded there like a burst of light and shot an electric jolt up the penis. That Key Sound is the handiest tool a man can have! LOL.
During even the gentlest loving energy play this morning, mrs. a was orgasming repeatedly with dry body-motion/vocalisation orgasms and I was enjoying dry multiples of varying intensities up to Super-Os in Aneros lingo. This was a Tantric Breakfast Body Banquet extraordinaire.
At the same time, I have been experiencing the spontaneous energy transfer (and transformation!) to my sacrum and lower back/base of spine generally. From "Butt Buzz" to "Base/Back Buzz"... That energy is different and does not feel specifically erotic, but rather is more like chi and a whole body energizing in a "zest for life" and mind/body bliss mode.
Such energy transformation and diversity of application is part of Tantra and Tao as I read and attempt to understand them through what my body is telling me through our experiences.
I have reworked and rewritten the blog title and introduction to try to be clearer about our experiences and the intentions here. My appreciation to Aneros and KSMO just keeps growing too!!!
Have any others here, who are also practioners of Tantra and/or Tao also worked with the Key Sound across this wide ecstatic energies spectrum?
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Hey Artform, what's a good book to read or website to visit if one wants to start off in the Tantric tradition?
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Posted 15th May 2008 at 14:22 by canuck75
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TantraHi canuck75
I and we have relied on reading, as much or more about the history, thought and art, and then following my and our bodies responses and intuition, rather than following protocols. My particular health and early experience background, as well as the great results, have influenced this approach. Having "rewired" in this way, we have then also experimented with the traditional approaches where they are feasible for me. The actual practice reference that we have, but used freely as above, is E.J. Gold and Cybele Gold's Tantric Sex, published in 1988 by Peak Skill, ISBN 0-917879-02-3. It was what we were able to find generally, not after any exhaustive search and comparison. Other books we have are more focused on the art and culture of Tantra, such as: The Art of Tantra, by Philip Rawson; The Tantric Way, by Ajit Mookerjee and Madhu Khanna; and Tantra: The Indian cult of ecstasy, by Philip Rawson Tantra and Tao in some ways are complementary opposites. Tantra is pro desire and Tao is pro control and transformation. The Tao of Sex by Harry S. Levy and Akira Ishihara; The Taoist Secrets of Love; Cultivating Male Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia and Michael Winn and the female parallel book for mrs. a, along with Chia's website recently and his many other books and materials... Another interesting volume, with a chapter dealing with the Kundalini serpent from a particular perspective is: Sexual Energy and Yoga, by Elizabeth Haich. I have to say that a good deal of this relates to academic and development project research work, as well as personal exploration! Hope these are of some interest and assistance. All the best with your journey canuck75! I'd love to hear your thoughts and others too on these and other Tantric and Taoist resources! artform as we rewire we are all reconnected |
Posted 16th May 2008 at 03:55 by artform
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Hey Artform,
Thanks for the detailed selection of books. I appreciate it. I think where I am right now, is that I know there is more to our bodies and the world around us then the western world would lead us to believe. Dumb statement I know, but still the truth. Reciprocally, while the eastern world has come to understand that the body, soul and spirit are all connected, I believe that they've gone too far the other way and 'mystified' things too much, if you will ( ie. the worship of various deities ). That's my opinion anyways. I figure there's got to be a middle ground somewhere. KSMO has revealed to me more about my body and the energy within us. We are definitely created very magnificently. The trick now for 'westerners' is to get our minds away from the lie that life is just the physical, that the body is seperate from the soul and spirit. |
Posted 16th May 2008 at 18:27 by canuck75
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Toward a Planetary civilization and culture?...Thanks canuck75.
Your reflections on the positioning of what we are exploring here are on the mark, IMHO. These are sensitive issues in our western culture and globally among the "civilizations" and the centuries of traditions as we now rapidly evolve into, not only a globalized economy, but a planetary civilization and culture. In Aneros, we have a category/milestone of ecstatic floating universal bliss defined as a Calm Seas Orgasm, which is seen as above the gold medal target of the Super-O! In part because of my injuries and chronic pain, my body prefers to head to the CSO-zone, but it is also where my spirit is at home and I feel truly at one with the universe, or more correctly in all likelihood, our universe and the multiverse of which we are a part. I think our practices here and at Aneros, developing the MMO capability are a vital part the new or renewed understanding of males, fully living in full spectrum maleness, and transforming many of the negative and destructive "physical dominant" effects that you signalled. I am mindful of the old saying that the best way to ruin a conversation is to get into topics of sex, religion or politics! However, I think that we are irretrievably into the erotic and the spiritual here. I have had some rich experiences in arab and muslim culture and have had a long interest in Sufism, the mystical ecstatic branch of Islam. The works of the Sufi poets Rumi and Hafez have enjoyed a great exposure and celebration in parts of western societies in the last few decades. You might find reading Rumi an interesting complement to any Tantric and/or Taoist explorations you take up. Some Rumi poems can be wonderful triggers paralleling the KS! Some of these mystic or ecstatic traditions are or can be in some ways the best way to image and connect with the emerging new levels of quantum physics understanding of our mind/brain activities and experience modes! But that is another topic for another time... Happy hunting! artform PS I found another title in our library appropriate to the earlier list here: From the Mating Dance to the Cosmic Dance by Swami Sidvananda Radha, subtitled Sex, Love, and Marriage from a Yogic Viewpoint. This 1992 book looks at the erotic to spiritual continuum/transformation... Jack, she is the founder and spiritual director of Yasodhara Ashram Society study centre and retreat in BC, and also founder of the Association for the Development of Human Potential, based in Spokane, Washington. Do you know of her? as we rewire we are all reconnected |
Posted 19th May 2008 at 16:15 by artform
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