Six of one and half a dozen of the other
Posted 15th March 2010 at 14:26 by Kepler
Hi!
I've been planning to write something here in my blog for a long time but something happeneda month ago that hold me.
That day I was having a nice session. I was very concentrated and I felt a very warm energy around my body. I was doing the KS and the single caresses before each Key Sound and suddenly I had a non ejaculatory orgasm. It was really incredible. I finished the practice and I couldn't believe I had done such a thing. I thought about posting something here but my mind was full of doubts. "What if I can't do it again? So I decided to wait until the next sessions.
A month has passed and I haven't felt the same yet. I didn't post anything because I thought that I was some kind of a looser. It's useless if I can only do it once. But after reading Radius blog I felt better and I decided to tell the story.
Now I know that maybe my problem is that I was obsessed with having another orgasm.
I think that now (and I hope it lasts a while) my sessions are not focused on having an orgasm. Now I look for the warm energy I felt that day and I try to remember the feelings right before the orgasm. It seems that this works because the practice is much more natural and pleasurable now. I will try to follow this path for a while and maybe this is the right thing to do.
PD: I don't know if the title is correct. I saw it in a web dictionary
I've been planning to write something here in my blog for a long time but something happeneda month ago that hold me.
That day I was having a nice session. I was very concentrated and I felt a very warm energy around my body. I was doing the KS and the single caresses before each Key Sound and suddenly I had a non ejaculatory orgasm. It was really incredible. I finished the practice and I couldn't believe I had done such a thing. I thought about posting something here but my mind was full of doubts. "What if I can't do it again? So I decided to wait until the next sessions.
A month has passed and I haven't felt the same yet. I didn't post anything because I thought that I was some kind of a looser. It's useless if I can only do it once. But after reading Radius blog I felt better and I decided to tell the story.
Now I know that maybe my problem is that I was obsessed with having another orgasm.
I think that now (and I hope it lasts a while) my sessions are not focused on having an orgasm. Now I look for the warm energy I felt that day and I try to remember the feelings right before the orgasm. It seems that this works because the practice is much more natural and pleasurable now. I will try to follow this path for a while and maybe this is the right thing to do.
PD: I don't know if the title is correct. I saw it in a web dictionary
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Hi Kepler,
Jack talked about this phenomenon of nothing happening for a while after a successful session in a chat last weekend. He called it regression to the mean. You can read that chat here.
Posted 15th March 2010 at 19:41 by Radius
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Great news you're hiding there!
Congratulations on your Key sound induced, non ejaculatory orgasm!
Don't be so hard on yourself regarding repeating the event. Doubt and chasing another orgasm would be extremely counter productive so I'm glad you've realised that all that pressure you're putting on yourself is not doing you any good. Remember Jacks words, "often when you least expect it". You've proved that to yourself once already so just relax and keep with the program.
Go easy on yourself, and advice from a newbie (me) is not to focus on what has happened previously during your sessions, but start each session in the moment, go in with an "empty cup".
(listen to the bloke who's never had a KSMO orgasm would ya!
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PS. title. To me, (from a little isolated backwater downunder), six of one, half a dozen of the other refers to two things or methods that are similar or get you to the same point.
Good on you Kepler, hope to hear more from you soon.
Sky.Posted 17th March 2010 at 03:38 by Sky_Walker
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Thanks Radius and Sky_walker for your kind words. I will try with the empty cup again. But before that I'm going to read the chat transcription.Posted 18th March 2010 at 19:38 by Kepler
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Ok I read the transcription. Now I know what you meant with regression to the mean. And now I know that after my orgasm I followed a wrong way. I tried harder and I wanted it to happen again. Jack precisely says that doing that is a trap.
Well now I'm a little confused I think I will have to think carefully about this.
Thanks for the link Radius!
PD: I tried to edit my previous post but I couldn't. Is that normal?Posted 18th March 2010 at 19:55 by Kepler
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Hi Radius...yes trying harder is a trap as Jack mentions.
As far as editing prior posts, it isn't "common" but from time to time I've found I couldn't access a post to edit.
As Jack is currently working on archiving the forum to get ready for the new changeover to the Website Upgrade....we'll find that certain things may not work for a brief time period.Posted 21st March 2010 at 12:08 by Laly
