Have to start somewhere

Hi Matt,

Sorry to hear about your events that have happened to you since your return. I am sure it was hard enough without that happening.

It has been a week or so since you said that you were going to start listening to the information to get started with this great program. I hope you have been making some head way with it. If you have not done so, you should really check out Jack's chat sessions. If you are running into any issues, you should be able to find a solution there.

Good luck to you.

Buster

Ouch, yeah a hard kick for sure.


Hmmmm....alll kinds of thoughts and advice come to mind ... have you sought or thought of seeking professional counseling for this?? Although it would be easy for some of us to sit here and go "ok...yea..but how about..." armchair counseling but we are not 'qualified' professionally trained counselors/therapists...I am going to give you a great link to a network of such wonderful people ...http://www.aasect.org .

I LOVE that outlook!! Look to the future ... it holds some great and interesting opportunities Matt . I can say that for certainty as I've been practicing KSMO for over 3 years now and myself gone through several rough patches we here at the forum call 'emotional furballs'.

Once your body IS rewired to the KSMO key sound, yes it IS possible within that 20 minute target area to achieve that level of pleasure/orgasm(s) you desire. In the beginning I implore you to just listen to the key sound, follow Jack's sample, and listen/fell your body for ANY subtle changes that may occur. They could appear anywhere on your body-- toe, leg, knee, arms, head (this is just to give you an idea of key areas to 'monitor') ...from tingles, to goosebumps, to shuddering --- things we call echo effects .


... that 'leaving possibilities open' is a great adage for your KSMO journey as well Matt .

Hmmm...that 'time is of the essence' to me is a first warning bell going off i my head Matt, how about not worrying so much about time factor...just "allow" your body to go at ITS pace.

The materials are quite easy to understand Matt...
Relax...pop in the KS cd..find a body position that is comfortable for you...no tension anywhere...every 4-5 breaths -follow Jack's KS sample and you can 'feel' of chest/throat area vibrates...

For validation of your KS ....there is a new service Jack offers where you can upload a sample recording of 4-5 of YOUR KSs and only Jack would be able to see and listen to it and only he and you would work together on it . Even after 3 years, I even had a few tweaks he suggested . lol...even an adept can learn . For more help...email Jack on how to do this.

Read the pdf file ... it is a guideline -- NOT strict rule for KSMO practice...great advice and tips in it!!.

I look forward to hearing more Matt... good luck!

Love and Light,
Laly

Well where am I at, the download thing to ipod has taken a back burner, that was the time is of the essence, if I don't do it today, then I more than likely just need to wait for the cd to come in the mail.
I appreciate all your comments, and I have had some success / breakthroughs at letting go as I attended Landmark Forum Seminar.

Thanks for the clarification Matt!

I've listened to the CD I got the mail version, because I never seem to load the electronic version. So I have been listening to the CD. I am in Massage school and we learn an incredible amount about Energy. I've found that during the initial check in, taking a few breaths of just saying the word Valley and letting my stomach fill as I end the word, creates an incredible energy transfer. Not creepy energy, but a real spark where the client is like what was that?! Once the energy connection is made it carries through the massage, not in an erotic way, but in a healing way as that is the energy I am conciously emitting. This kind of breath / prana really jumpstarts that system.

Now using it while fooling with my boys, I find very difficult. It is very interesting how this type of breath naturally causes contractions in the perineum. Very much the grounded 1st and 2nd Chakra's getting hit here.

OK now I sound like a fruitloop, but I tend to want to take every breath this way as a pattern and not let the reverberation settle in.

Patience is tough here. It is like taking the time to meditate and check in with yourself. It is a great thing but in our business, we hardly ever do it.

Hi Matt!

Good to read your candid blog.

You seem to be well disposed both in body, mind and also attitude, to making a great success of the KSMO.

>I've found that during the initial check in, taking a few breaths of just saying the word Valley and letting my stomach fill as I end the word, creates an incredible energy transfer.<

.....and you seem already to be well connected up in the re-wiring process, to Valley Breathing.

>It is very interesting how this type of breath naturally causes contractions in the perineum. Very much the grounded 1st and 2nd Chakra's getting hit here.<

I agree! Take it from me, when you become an adept in the KSMO, valley breathing, done with the focus on the feelings that it can induce in the perineum and all the vital bits down there, can contribute hugely to the MMO experience. That, together with the effect that a well-produced Key Sound can have in that area has the possibility to transport you to the outer edges of the galaxy. When it happens you'll enjoy the Ride!

Laly, (I think of her as Jack's KSMO PA) always gives excellent advice. Read what she says several times over!

Good luck!

Mog

AWWWW thanks Mog ...

If I could just share the inner love and light that KSMO brings forth in me ... the world would know no darkness .

Matt..seems you are getting some great advice from SEVERAL great KSMo adepts.

Hey Statmatt, with all of these supportive comments I hope you realize that we are indeed here to help you!

Let's hear from you!

And come to the chats so you can feel the support everyone has for your learning this lifelong skill!

STILL wishing you the very best,
Jack

Well I've not practiced... too damn lazy... but I do find the breathing privately in public generates an incredible amount of energy that is palpable to others.

That is why Jack recommends that the KS be done privately ...not just because it is a deeply "private" act, but because of the amount of energy it invokes or stirs up is or can be quite INTENSE...not just for the the person doing the Key Sound but the person or people around you.

I've not done the KS intentionally in a public or open place, but I do experience echos that would 'drive me nuts' ; however instead of automatically starting KS right there- I find a quiet place alone, like bathroom where I can release the energy 'safely'.
I do not recommend at any time-- doing KS in public area.